Being a positive woman doesn’t always come easy but it does always come with a powerful lesson! Learning lessons and moving forward and being the person we are here to be is a life-long journey.
I wanted an apology from someone who clearly wasn’t going to give one because they didn’t think they’d done anything wrong. Yesterday, after agonizing over it with anger, resentment and frustration for over a month, I realized that if I was going to get an apology, it was going to come from ME.
I had instigated the entire situation and if I’d heeded several strong warnings I was given and stayed in “observation” mode instead of allowing my ego to go where it didn’t belong, there wouldn’t BE a situation to apologize for!
Taking responsibility for what happens in your life is different than taking responsibility for what happens TO you. If you are not part of what happens TO you, it cannot happen. There is never anything in your life you did not have a hand in creating. So life doesn’t happen TO you. You are responsible and recognizing this gives you an amazing amount of power and choice. ~ Kelly Rudolph
I’m usually very conscious of being responsible for what happens in my life, good or bad, but this time I needed another lesson and this was a hard, painful one that I’m glad is over. It is memorable and I’m confident I will heed warnings in the future.
I used an emotional release technique I learned from an Indian Medicine Man 26 years ago that I use frequently. It is instant and there are no remnants that remain afterward. I use this technique often to avoid staying stuck in emotion after a lesson has been learned.
There was a need to be vulnerable and share this with you for your benefit. If it helped you, please let me know by leaving a comment…